Many people start listening to Christmas music the day after Thanksgiving. I think it is the common standard here in America. But I am not one of those people.
This year I started in the beginning of October. People tell me that that is a major improvement over 2011 when I did “Christmas in July” and never stopped. I think next year I am going to celebrate the 12 Days of Christmas by doing something Christmas-y on the 25th of every month.
In all seriousness, what isn’t there to like about Christmas? After the obnoxiousness known as “black Friday” (which really is a black mark on American culture…) everyone is happier. Everyone is more giving. Everyone cares more about their family. Everyone reminisces about their childhood and family traditions. Everyone drinks eggnog, listens to Christmas music, drives around trying to find the greatest display of lights and anxiously awaits for the knock of carolers at the door and for the next movie to start on Hallmark or ABC Family.
I personally love everything about it. I love hearing how people in different countries celebrate the Savior’s birth. I love talking to my friends who also just got home from all over the world on missions and the new-found traditions brought from other cultures.
Maybe it is because both of my parents’ birthdays are on Christmas. My mom was born on December 25th and my dad was born on January 7th, the day it is celebrated in traditionally eastern orthodox countries (like Ukraine!). Maybe it is because you get to go sit on Santa’s lap and ask for anything you want. Maybe it is because you just got over finals and you don’t have to worry about anything for another week or two. Whatever it is, it’s awesome.
Christmas and Easter are sibling holidays. Without the one, the other is meaningless. Without the birth of Jesus Christ on that first Christmas, there would be no Atonement. Without the Atonement, it would be just another child born in a small village outside of Jerusalem.
“The real Christmas comes to him who has taken Christ into his life as a moving, dynamic, vitalizing force. The real spirit of Christmas lies in the life and mission of the Master….
“If you desire to find the true spirit of Christmas and partake of the sweetness of it, let me make this suggestion to you. During the hurry of the festive occasion of this Christmas season, find time to turn your heart to God. Perhaps in the quiet hours, and in a quiet place, and on your knees—alone or with loved ones—give thanks for the good things that have come to you, and ask that His Spirit might dwell in you as you earnestly strive to serve Him and keep His commandments” (Howard W. Hunter, “The Real Christmas,” Ensign, Dec 2005, 22–25).
In Sunday school this week, the lesson was about the Atonement. Today in my New Testament class (take it from Skinner if you get the chance) we talked about the Last Supper and Gethsemane. It really has been on my mind since I went to see the temple square lights on Saturday. I am not one for being completely “solemn” or “serious” all of the time. I’m sure you’ve noticed that if you’ve ever talked to me for more than five seconds. I’ve often told people that if Heavenly Father doesn’t have a good sense of humor, then maybe the Celestial Kingdom isn’t all that it is cracked up to be.
But all of the traditions and singing and food are a great way to celebrate the second most important event in the history of the world. It really is second only to what He did 33 years later. They bring us together, they cheer us up, they remind us that life is not only meant to be endured, but enjoyed. But when the time comes and the moment is right, let us all try to have a moment of personal re-dedication to serving the Lord. The “magic” doesn’t need to stop after you open your adult-sized footie pajamas that your grandma sent you or after you eat the last slice of ham, or even after watching “A Christmas Story” 7 times during the annual 24 hour marathon. When the spirit of Christmas permeates the world in the season of giving, why does it need to go away?
We can keep giving, serving, helping, laughing, singing more often than in the shower, and caring than 1 month a year. Hot chocolate can be replaced with ice cold lemonade and Santa hats with a baseball hat and some sunglasses. The parts that REALLY make Christmas are the things we can do everyday.
So this holiday season, whatever you are celebrating, be it Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, College Football Bowl Season, or anything else, try to keep the momentum going into 2013 and make a difference in the world one act of service at a time. And if you need to listen to Mannheim Steamroller to get you in the mood, then all the better.